Very sad news regarding Neil Ryan.
"I have just spoken to his daugher-in-law.
Unfortunately there is no hope. The medications are now being withheld and his
breathing tube has been removed. He is not expected to survive. He is in and
out of consciousness and it is only a matter of time".
Sad news. That message came to me over our
Kolej blog just a few minutes ago. Mr. Ryan was our headmaster at MCKK – the
last expatriate to head MCKK. A remarkable man whom we called our own from the
time we first met him at Kolej.
From then on, for the rest of our life he was part of our life. Our
family knew about Mr, Ryan, our friends knew about Mr, Ryan and our lives stopped
for Mr. Ryan whenever he would be around our space in his frequent visits to
Kuala Lumpur. You do not ask each other if you would like to go and see Mr. Ryan, When he was in town we just tell each other where and when and when we
are around him the old days came surging back into our life.
The last time I saw him was at Anwar’s
house some years back. Anwar was away so Azizah was host. I was a bit taken
aback to see that he had aged considerably and not in the least conscious of
the fact that I was already 63 years old then! Apart from that Mr. Ryan was his
usual self. Sharing himself with everybody and answering the same question that
everyone kept asking him…his health, where he was now staying, his work……and of
course the standard “Do you remember me Sir” And as always Mr. Ryan was gracious and
totally unaware of the reverence that we all had for him from MCKK days until
now.
I have had my experiences with him but one
stands out above all else. I was then working in a Pizza Hut in the Adelaide
Hills. It was early evening and then out of nothing, I told myself that Mr.
Ryan was close by. He walked in just as I looked towards the entrance! He was in
Adelaide for a visit and just happened to come to that Pizza Hut.
Sometimes in our life there are
individuals that touches our life and give us a reason to believe in the
goodness of others who really have an interest in what we become and do in
life. Mr. Ryan was one such individual. I pray that he will recover.
Pak HH,
ReplyDeleteThere was a person in my life who almost matches your kind of individual "that touches our life and give us a reason to believe in the goodness of others who really have an interest in what we become and do in life" as you said....... except that, my kind of that kind of person was Abdul Razak Abdullah Baginda who for one whole year had been a tutor in a course I've attended in 1988. Just how many hundreds of us are keeping the memory of him to realise now how close we were to the devil of Altantuya's misery...