You know what Zahid....I will never ever tell a lady.......tell a girl........tell a women or any member of the feminine gender that she is not pretty because my late Father and late Mother (God rest their soul) have taught me what is the right thing to do and what is the wrong thing to do in life....and treating other people of any gender with respect and dignity is one important aspect of our upbringing!
My son Zack will never do the same thing too because I and my wife have also taught him how he should treat not only the girls that he meets but also any other human being he comes into contact with.
Did not your father and mother taught you some manners?
Did not your father and mother taught you to respect other people?
Did not your father and mother taught you that if you cannot say anything nice about a lady or about anybody, then it is better to be silent?
Did not your father and mother have the brains or the decency to teach you that as a Muslim and a Malay you are to conduct yourself in a manner that does not bring any shame to the Islamic religion, to the Malay race and also to them?
So that when people look at you and at how you are behaving, they will not talk amongst themselves and tell each other that that is not the way a Malay, a Muslim should behave....nor did they expect that the eldest son of that Hamidi would behave in the manner that you did!
Or were your parents unable to be decent parents because their parents,(your grandfather and grandmother), did not teach them to be decent parents? And this has been the common fault of all the generations of your family that have come before you?
Or is this how people of Javanese descent behave?